According to the ET video, Kirstie propositioned Patrick but he turned her down. But she insists they were in love. "We did not have an affair," Kirstie said. "But again, I think what I did was worse. Because I think when you fall in love with someone when you're married, you jeopardize your own marriage and their marriage."
After Patrick, she made a decision that she wouldn't ever involve herself with a married man. She's friends with the late Patrick's wife, Lisa, but Kirstie reportedly said she's not sure if Lisa is aware of their "relationship."
If his wife didn’t know before, why bring it up now — especially since Patrick isn’t even around to give his side of things?