Based on his behavior during his birthday party, we tend to agree. Instead of letting his wife sort out her personal problems with Cynthia, Kordell decided to step in and settle the matter himself. Cynthia found this to be rather controlling, which we think is a fair assessment.
And then in the March 10 episode, during the girls' Las Vegas trip, Porsha decided to sit out a night at the strip club because she didn't think Kordell would approve. Naturally, this prompted NeNe to question if he is just traditional or controlling, and Porsha immediately said he's not controlling, but she does want to keep him happy.
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