After three marriages, it's not surprising that Jennifer Lopez has a clear idea of her ideal mate.

The pop star and American Idol judge — who has been married to actor Ojani Noa, dancer Cris Judd, and salsa singer Marc Anthony — has been dating dancer Casper Smart since 2011, and it seems like the two could go the distance.

Now Jennifer, 43, is opening up to Cosmopolitan about her relationship with Casper, 26, and her learnings in love.

"For me, it's about having a great partner to walk this life with," she reveals in the October issue's cover story. "I have my own high standards for what I want in a partner and how I want to be treated."

She seems to consider herself a catch, too, saying: "I bring a lot to the table. I'm not talking about material things but what I have to offer as a person — love and loyalty and all the things that make a good relationship."

And, from the sound of it, Casper offers a lot more than back-up dance moves. "It's funny, early on with [Casper], I remember telling him how I have a real button on being ignored," she recounts. "And he was like, 'Listen, if somebody ignores you, then forget them. They don't deserve to have your attention.'"

Glad to hear J-Lo gushing about her guy! Do you think the two will walk down the aisle soon? Sound off below!

Source: Cosmopolitan via E! Online

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