According to Catherine, the key to a roaring romance is pulling the plug on technology and making time for some 1-on-1 all aloneness. “Carving out a date night every week or two is something that works for us,” she writes in Glamour. “QT is important in a relationship — that means an intentional effort to cater to your loved one — and our phones, computers, and TVs have to take a backseat.”
What else works for the Lowes? Cat suggests figuring out what kind of love language you and your partner speak, so your attempts to romance each other don’t get lost in translation. “Sean is a Words of Affirmation guy, so I tell him how well he’s doing in doggy daddy-hood, husbandry, and his business endeavors and leave him Lowe Notes [Catherine’s line of greeting cards] to tell him how much I appreciate him. He holds my hand everywhere because I’m a Physical Touch kind of girl.”
C.Lowe also cautions that women can’t expect men to do all the work of wooing in a relationship. “In order for you to expect to be treated like the fabulous lady you are, you have to treat him well too!” Well sure, but can we get a little princess pampering please?
Do you agree with Cat’s words of wisdom or no? Tell us in the comments.