Credit: Courtesy of goop Photo: Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin

Well, this is slightly confusing.

Two weeks after their breakup, Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin attended Robert Downey Jr.'s big birthday bash – and acted very much like a couple still. This is, of course, interesting to the rest of us, since we were pretty certain they announced they were separating.

Now a source has told PEOPLE, that the two were very "lovey-dovey" and they "held hands and laughed and joked as a family. It was not the typical picture of a divorce. If the reports had not come out you would think, 'Wow, they are a perfect couple.' "

If only all breakups could go this smoothly...

We do have to give them a little credit for putting their friends and family first in what could have been a really ugly ordeal. Gwyneth and Chris' kids, Apple, 9, and Moses, 8, were said to have "looked happy," PEOPLE's source said. "Gwyneth was in such good spirits. She had her hair pulled back in a ponytail and she looked amazing."

What do you think about Gwyneth and Chris' breakup and how they are handling it? Do you think it's a breath of fresh air for Hollywood? Let us know in the comments below!

Source: PEOPLE