Whatever the Beatles might say, twice-divorced Kelly Rutherford (Lily) doesn't believe that all you need is love. You also need your friends to weigh in before you tie the knot.

"Are you kidding me?"  she tells Celebuzz. "Yes!!! I have pairs of shoes that have lasted longer than both of my marriages. I asked for a second opinion on those shoes and about every other outfit, sofa, investment, travel plans, everything!!!!"

Kelly's been burned enough that it seems a matchmaker's starting to sound good.

"We used to have arranged marriages...it was not about love. It was sensible. The family picked who you would marry. People stayed married and did their own thing. They didn't fall out of love and leave the family or cost the family its fortune in divorce court. Back then, there was no pressure to stay in love it seems...and many times, they actually fell in love as time went on. I am not saying I'm an advocate for arranged marriage, I'm just aware that sometimes love is blind... You need a second opinion and should always at least consider what your loved ones tell you."

Depressing! But is Kells really an expert in the field of love, anyway? It sounds more like we should be asking her where to buy durable shoes.

Source: Celebuzz