While some of our deepest, truest, purest hopes for our favorite Gossip Girl couples came true in the Season 6 series finale, others were left on the cutting room floor.

For every ten Chair shippers who sewed their Chuck (Ed Westwick) and Blair (Leighton Meester)-shaped body pillows together way before it was even cool, there is one Dair shipper wishing that Blair could have tszujied Dan (Penn Badgley)’s hair into something presentable.

And, while we were thrilled to watch Serena (Blake Lively) and Dan (Penn Badgley) walk down the throw rug in the end, we had to wonder about their parents’ choices. Turns out, we weren’t the only ones.

Although Lily (Kelly Rutherford) will be sitting pretty in couture with her old-new man William, celebrating their daughter’s marriage and maybe their son’s someday (gay marriage is legal in NY, after all), is that who she should really be with? Kelly Rutherford doesn’t seem to think so.

After the show wrapped, Kelly tweeted at her IRL pal Matthew Settle (Rufus),

Well, Kelly, as darling and borderline-creepy as that would be (your family reunions would be like four people...), Matthew doesn’t seem too keen on doing anything associated with Gossip Girl ever again. We’d love to see Rufus and Lisa Loeb say “I Do” (she’s a pro at it, literally), or even Rufus and Lily... but everybody feels this way sometimes. You know we do. 

Source: Kelly Rutherford on Twitter