Gretchen appeared on Watch What Happens Live this week and was asked by a caller why she can't put the past behind her with Alexis.
"Honestly, it's not about not forgiving Alexis," Gretchen explains. "It's just that we are on two totally different pages right now."
"And I wish her well, but you know?" Gretchen continues. "We just aren't seeing eye-to-eye on a specific subject, and until we can come to eye-to-eye with that, I just don't know if we're gonna move forward in the friendship."
Today Show host Willie Geist — who was also a guest on the chat show — asked Gretchen if she is befriending Tamra to avoiding getting guff from her, but Gretchen says it's much simpler than that.
"Actually, Tamra and I just really tried to move forward, and I think it was just too draining to be so upset about it, so I just needed to let it go," she says.
Will Gretchen and Alexis ever see "eye-to-eye"? We're not holding our breath.