Love, marriage, children, divorce, heartbreak, love (again), lust … Grey's Anatomy’s Bailey (Chandra Wilson) has experienced it all. And now that she has proposed to Ben (Jason George), it looks like she’s beginning her journey again. Although we hope this time she stops halfway through. You know, before the divorce part.

But according to TV Guide, getting to the marriage part of the equation might not be as easy as you’d think. We aren’t the only ones scared of Bailey repeating the divorce and heartbreak stage of her life, and it looks like Bailey might need a little bit of a push (or at least a good talkin’ to) to get her down the aisle.

“It's almost like pulling a tugboat to get her to cooperate, but the thing is happening with or without her, and she's got to get on board with the program at some point. Bailey can be distracted very easily, and she's already been married and done it in what she thought was the right way and it failed, so there's a lot of fear going into it again,” Chandra said.

And who will be there to give her a much needed kick in the pants? Cristina Yang (Sandra Oh) and Callie Torres (Sara Ramirez), of course. It makes sense: Cristina knows what it’s like not to want to go down the aisle, and Callie knows how painful divorce is, and now they’re both happily(ish) married. Plus, they can both be pretty intimidating …

We really hope that the girls either have an amazing speech prepared or have been hitting the gym, because if Ben and Bailey don’t make it, we might just lose all faith in true love.

Catch the next new episode of Grey’s Anatomy on Thursday, November 15 at 9 p.m. ET/PT on ABC.

Source: TV Guide

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