Credit: Randy Holmes/ABC Television Group © 2011 Disney Photo: Meredith Grey on Grey's Anatomy May 19, 2011

Things are rarely black and white in Shondaland, and Meredith (Ellen Pompeo) and Derek (Patrick Dempsey)'s fight during the Grey's Anatomy Season 7 finale was no exception. We get why Meredith couldn't just sit back and let Adele's condition deteriorate when Derek's drug could help her, but Derek's right to be outraged — blind trials are supposed to be, you know, blind. Someone has to get the placebo, and doctors shouldn't play god.

Neither doc acted particularly honorably, either. Meredith was way too stubborn for someone who'd  been caught breaking such serious ethical codes, and Derek saying he might not be able to raise a kid with her and then going AWOL isn't exactly earning him the husband-of-the-year award.

But enough with this wishy-washy they-both-have-a-point stuff. We want you to pick a side!