On Jersey Shore Season 6, Episode 9: “Make It Unofficial,” Vinny and The Situation start to feel like Snooki is completely ignoring them, because she’s trying to be a “conservative” mom. But it sounds like they’re really not joking around, and they’re legitimately hurt.

When it’s just the girls talking to Snooki, she says that Vinny should talk to fiance Jionni LaValle because she wants Vinny to be at her wedding. She explains that all Vinny has to do is say a simple “Congratulations,” or just make it clear that, even though he’s slept with Snooks in the past, that’s all behind them. She wants them to be friends.

Vinny claims he has no beef with Jionni, but we suspect he secretly likes being a mild threat in Jionni’s mind.

As for The Sitch? Snooki says, “He doesn’t exist.” Did Snooki ever forgive The Situation for “embarrassing” Jionni, as she put it?

Based on this photo taken in October, it looks she’s at least considering the idea. Let’s keep our fingers crossed that she does, and that all eight castmates can dance at all of their weddings in the future. We predict there will be a lot of them.

Catch the next new episode of Jersey Shore on Thursday, November 29 at 10 p.m. ET/PT on MTV.

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