We’ve experienced plenty of ups and downs in Jillian Harris’s love life over the years. She got dissed by Jason Mesnick on Season 13 of The Bachelor, then she found and lost love with Ed Swiderski during her turn on Bachelorette Season 5. But she’s been steady with longtime beau (and beautiful specimen of a man) Justin Pasutto for awhile now, so when we heard she was shopping for wedding dresses our hearts did the happiest of happy dances.

But is it her dress she’s shopping for? The designer tweeted, “Wedding Dress Shopping!!!! For my very bestie@schulerkarissa of course... Such a wonderful day filled with giggles, heart flutters & even happy tears!!!” Ah, shoot. Swing and a miss.

But, we do love weddings, no matter whose they are, and since it’s Jilly’s best friend we’re excited that we’ll be getting an up-close and personal look at all the planning. Plus, at the very least this hopefully means we’ll see some pics of our gal Jillian looking gorg in a bridesmaids dress, which might inspire her to get engaged herself and do a little of her own wedding planning.... hint, hint, ahem, cough, cough, Jilly — we’re waaaaaiiiiiting.

Send your well wishes to Jillian and her bestie in the comments.

Source: Jillian on Instagram