“Sex is the glue of the marriage,” Melissa writes. According to the Jersey mama, sex “fills the little cracks that hold you together. Otherwise, those tiny cracks can turn into huge splits.”
Mel goes on to say that she and Joe get it on every other day (which we could totally believe thanks to the RHoNJ trailer) and they regularly use make-up sex to resolve lingering issues.
“It’s the best way to put an argument to rest,” she pens. But if you think that their hanky-panky is all about the pleasure, guess again. Melissa describes it as a moment where the couple can let their guard down and get to the heart of things.
“It’s how we bond emotionally.” Melissa says
But Melissa admits that it takes more than the Gorgas’ marvelous bedroom fun to keep their marriage afloat.
“Marriage is hard. I work at it every day. During our eight years together, we’ve had plenty of rocky times and major fights,” she discusses. She adds “no marriage is perfect,” but it seems like she and her man are definitely onto something.
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