Her TV husband may be hard to beat (you have to admit there is something charming about that goofball Phil Dunphy), but is Julie Bowen (Claire Dunphy) have a real-life hubby, dorky or otherwise?

Credit: Sam Sharma/Pacific Coast News Photo: Julie Bowen and Husband Scott Phillips Head to a Mother's Day Breakfast With Their Children and Another Kid on May 8, 2011

The short answer is yes. The 41-year-old actress married real estate investor Scott Phillips in 2004, and the couple are parents to three sons under 5 — Oliver (born on April 10, 2007) and twins John and Gus (born on May 8, 2009). Julie confessed to Parade that she and Scott (who gives Ty Burrell serious competition in the dreamboat department) have the perfect opposites-attract relationship:

"The dirty secret is that I'm a very anxious person. I'm constantly looking for the hole in the doughnut. My husband, Scott, doesn't even know the doughnut has a hole — no one told him. He's the perfect counterbalance. He has a calming effect on me, and he's fun."

Do Julie and Scott have plans to try for a baby girl? "Oh, God, no! No more children," she joked in an interview with People. "Seriously, I gave my husband a vasectomy with a rusty fork — it's done."

Sources: Parade, People