On one hand, 22-year-old Taylor Swift tells Cosmopolitan she can't deal with someone wanting to take a relationship backward, needing space, or cheating. "I just don't ever want to end up in a relationship that isn't fair ever again," she says (via UsMagazine.com).
But on the other hand, when asked what she's looking for in her Mr. Right, Taylor reveals, "I need that unexplainable spark. [...] I just need to see someone and feel Oh, no, uh-oh. It's only happened a few times in my life, but I feel like if I was gonna be with someone forever, it would be because I saw them and I thought, 'Oh, no.'"
Oh, no! Oh, yes — there's no clearer sign that you've met your soul mate than to greet them with dread. But, seriously, that instant butterflies-in-the-stomach attraction is often a sign of lust at first sight, not love. Some people get lucky, and that infatuaton does develop into a deep, lifelong commitment. But it's not usually the start of a fairy tale, just physical chemistry that fades. Start with friendship, Tay!