Real Housewives of Miami star Joanna Krupa is explaining why she presented Lisa Hochstein with the ultimatum of choosing either her wedding or Adriana De Moura's. Decisions, decisions!

"All the friends that I have in my life are loyal, and I can count on them in any situation," Joanna writes in her Bravo blog. "Why should I choose Lisa as a bridesmaid when I have friends that have been in my life for 17 years that are like my family? Why should I make room for Lisa and not include one of my true, loving friends that have been with me through the hardest times in my life and make them a bridesmaid?"

"I think I had every right to question Lisa’s loyalty as a friend, because she is friends with someone that not only physically assaulted me, but someone that has called me an escort in the press and tried to hurt my reputation and hurt me intentionally," Joanna adds. "How can I trust someone that is friends with a person that’s been so vindictive and malicious? It makes me question what kind of friends Lisa has. And it makes me question our friendship if she can be friends with people like that."

Joanna says that she can't figure out why Lisa wants to be her bridesmaid so badly. "I am not here to tell Lisa who to be friends with, but Lisa is the one that keeps dropping the hints she wants to be a bridesmaid at my wedding," she writes. "Is it that she really wants to be a bridesmaid because she cares about me, or because she wants to be the double agent that gets to be a bridesmaid in two weddings?"

Strong words! Who knew a wedding could cause such grief?

Source: Joanna's Bravo blog