Who knew one of the Real Housewives of New Jersey could be so zen? If you watched the show’s Season 5 reunion Sunday night, you no doubt noticed that Kathy Wakile stayed pretty quiet the whole time. Now, Kathy is revealing the reason for her silence on her official Bravo blog. Is it just us, or is she kind of throwing a bit of shade at her castmates in the process?

Many of the Jersey housewives are related to each other, and that has led to a ton of family drama over the years. However, Kathy says she and her sister, Rosie Pierri, have learned to handle conflict in a healthy way.

“Even if we might not agree on all topics, we don't sweat the small stuff — we got each other’s backs, always and forever. In our world, just because one of us gets mad, we don't lie, fabricate the truth, or try to get even, that is just not in our make-up,” Kathy writes.

Yeah, that’s is definitely not how some of her co-star choose to handle their family problems. Perhaps she’s throwing a bit of shade here?

Kathy goes on to explain why she didn’t speak up very much for most of the show. “If it is worthwhile conversation I am the first one to speak up, if it's not, then in my classic, old school style, I'd rather say nothing at all to people who don't get it,” she writes.

“Health and happiness and the big picture — that is what is important. Not the petty crap of who said, who texted, who tweeted.”

What do you think: was Kathy throwing shade at the ladies, or simply sharing some helpful insight?

Source: Kathy Wakile’s Blog