Is Joe Gorga Gay? Melissa Weighs In! (VIDEO) Tweet July 11, 2012 by Wetpaint Entertainment Staff Related: Real Housewives of New Jersey, Melissa Gorga , Joe Gorga , Season 4 Episode 11 Credit: Bravo Joe Gorga has plenty of love for everybody, and sometimes his free spirit leads Melissa to (jokingly!) question some things about her hubby. But does she think her man is gay? Watch and see what she says!