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You guys, we’re probably not going to make it. The couple who has inspired us for years on reality television — Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra — has officially called off their wedding and we can’t handle it physically, mentally, or emotionally.

We’re not looking to point fingers, but it’s all surrounding the VH1 show Couples Therapy. Catelynn and Tyler went into the show's third season promising fans that they were only participating to prepare to walk down the aisle on July 13.

But two new synopses from Couples Therapy tell us that it’s these sessions that caused Tyler to call off the wedding.

In Episode 5, airing Wednesday, July 17 at 10 p.m. ET, “Tyler comes to the heartbreaking realization that he’s just not ready to get married.”

And if that weren’t enough, in Episode 6, airing Wednesday, July 24 at 10 p.m. ET, “After Tyler calls of their wedding, a heartbroken Catelynn meets with Dr. Jenn for help with her broken heart.”

What about our broken hearts, you guys?! What about us?!

Clearly Catelynn and Tyler are still together, seeing as they’re about to head out on a rustic week-long vacation in the wilderness, but will they ever get married? If surviving nine years, the birth and adoption placement of their child, and three reality TV shows together isn’t proof enough for Tyler, what will be?!

So many questions and so many emotions. For now we’d like to be alone with Ben & Jerrys and our diaries.

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