Tonight on The Bachelor, Juan Pablo Galavis’s favorite girl, Sharleen Joynt, sent herself packing. While we definitely saw it coming, none were more sure than the savvy members of Bachelor Nation. After all, they’ve come, they’ve seen, and they’ve accepted the roses, so these love experts can tell when someone’s just not into it.

Here’s what our favorite past contestants had to say about Sharleen’s devastating (but only for Juan Pablo) departure: