The adorably awesome former Bachelor contestant Ashley Spivey’s ongoing video blog “Spivey Says” has been chronicling the adventures of Bachelorette Emily Maynard and her band of suitors.

This week, Ashley talks Episode 6 — analyzing the Croatian situation that left both Travis Pope and Ryan Bowers rose-less. Her top pick? Still Arie Luyendyk, Jr. — whom she compares to Christian Grey.

Um, Excuse us, while we go think about that for a few hours.

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