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If we had our choice of being a contestant on The Bachelor vs. The Bachelorette, we’d totally rather bro it up with the dudes, ya know. After all, how many times have you heard the bitchy girls say “I’m not here to make friends” (we’re looking at you, Vienna / Tierra / Courtney / Michelle). Um, you’re stuck in a house with these people, so stop being a dick. Jef Holm and Sean Lowe totally took this to heart and formed a serious bromance. In fact, they still chat all the time (It’s like Emily Maynard who?).

Jef kicked it with the ladies of local SLC affiliate ABC4 the other day to gossip about Sean and water and probably gingham shirts. Obvi, these serious journalists had a very important question for the founder of a company which digs wells for impoverished countries: “Have you talked to Sean?”

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I did, I actually was in LA this last weekend and he came out and met me and we had dinner together and hung out and caught up, cuz I hadn’t seen him since he went home in Curacao in the second to last episode,” Jef spilled. Subtext: when he LOST TO ME. But for serious. How cute would that little dinner date have been to crash? GAH dying.

But it wasn’t just a one time fling. Oh no, Jef and Sean are much more seriously involved than that. “[W]e talk all the time and I text him after every episode and he texts me,” Mr. One F spills. “But I finally got to see him. He’s been so busy with his schedule. And we met up and caught up, first about our season, and then about how this season’s going and he seems so happy and I know it ends well for him and I’m really happy for him. I don’t want to spoil it...”

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Enter squealing and kindergarten slapping here. TELL US JEF. WHAT DO YOU KNOW? “Everyone always asks me, ‘Do you know the ending?!’ and of course I could probably ask him, he’d tell me, but I told him not to.” You know, cuz they’re tight like that. “I said ‘I don’t want anybody to tell me anything, I want to watch a full season for the first time without knowing anything and no insights’ and it’s been cool.”

You’re so cool. You’re so cool. You’re so cool.

Source: ABC4 SLC