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The Bachelor is a brutal tournament of outdoorsy dates (goat milking, anyone), filmed heart-to-hearts, and heartbreaking limo exits. On Monday, February 25, 2013, Sean Lowe will send another girl off into the sunset. Will it be Catherine Giudici, AshLee Frazier, or Lindsay Yenter? For those of you who haven’t been keeping abreast of the latest spoilers, prepare to be shocked!

Thanks to ABC’s episode synopsis, we know Sean takes extra time to deliberate before the rose ceremony, turning to the ever-present and omniscient Chris Harrison for advice. The remaining three girls send him “touching” video messages, and, at Chris’s urging, Sean watches the videos before he makes his decision. In the end, Sean sends AshLee home — leaving Lindsay and Catherine to battle it out for the final rose.

AshLee is so hurt, she refuses to speak to Sean before leaving Thailand with “her heart and her spirit crushed.” As AshLee leaves Thailand in tears, Sean contemplates his next decision. Does Lindsay finally open up to Sean in the fantasy suite? Can Sean get over Catherine’s families comments and picture their life together?

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