Now that Sean Lowe’s Bachelor Season 17 has wrapped, our sights are already set on the next season of ABC’s hit show. Who will Mike Fleiss and his team of intrepid producers cast as the next male rose doler? Now that Roberto Martinez has confirmed he’s dating hot Playmate Sara Underwood, the next obvious choice is Emily Maynard’s ex Jef Holm. Jef is single, has perfect hair, has surprisingly perfect abs, and already has a proven track record of making girls fall for him on national TV.

Lucky for us, we got to catch up with Mr. Holm exclusively at the 2nd Annual Chris4Life Celebrity Auction Event in Los Angeles on April 5, 2013, and he answered all of our burning questions. Spoiler alert: It doesn’t look like he’ll be telling another girl he wants to date her and marry the f*ck out of her anytime soon — at least not on reality TV.

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Would you be The Bachelor?
That's the tough question. I'm a bachelor right now. I'm kind of living the life of a bachelor.

Are your TV dates over?
For now, my reality TV dates are over, yeah.

But never say never?
I never thought that I would go on The Bachelorette, you know? I'm not that type of person to go on a show like that, but I did it. It was an amazing experience, and I would never take it back. So I don't know what life holds for me. I always get involved in new things, always. So I don't know what life holds. I can't put myself in a box. I'm a free spirit, and I kind of do things that I think help people and help myself, and I just try to live life one day at a time.