Tenley Molzahn speaks from hard-won experience when she warns against getting engaged on The Bachelor. The Season 14 alum was Jake Pavelka's runner-up, and she's recently become BFF with Sean Lowe's ex Lindsay Yenter. "Producers would me for this, but don't get engaged on television," Tenley tells King5. "Don't do it after the six week 'process' of trying to date several people at one time. I mean, your heart's trying to figure it all out. For some people it has worked," the San Diego native adds. "But I just think that they'd have better success if they said 'I'm choosing you to go into the real world with, and let's go figure this out.'"