Credit: ABC with graphic by Julia Wayne for Wetpaint Photo: Desiree Hartsock and Her 25 Contestants

As we all know, Brian Jarosinski hit up The Bachelorette for all the wrong reasons. In fact, this mega-hunk / super villain was kicked out of Desiree Hartsock's love nest after his girlfriend, Playboy Playmate Stephanie Larimore, showed up and dropped the bombshell that she was dating Brian at the time he applied for the show. Yikes!

We were looking forward to Brian explaining himself during The Bachelorette’s “Men Tell All” special, but apparently this dude was too busy participating in Rock Wars 2013 to have time for such trivialities. At least according to Desiree!

"BREAKING NEWS," Desiree wrote not-at-all dramatically during her People Bachelorette blog. "I just learned that Brian is too scared to show his face at The Men Tell All, but that is probably for the better. I definitely don't want to waste any time on a guy who showed up with a girlfriend. That is not the type of guy I was ever looking for, nor is he someone that any self-respecting woman in America should be with."

Huh, apparently Des has forgotten that Brian and Stephanie are most definitely back together. Oh wait, no she hasn't, because she followed up with "I hope you don't get your heart broken by that jerk, Stephanie!"

Preach, sister. We'd hate for Stephanie's achy breaky heart to get re-broken by Brian — but hey, everyone deserves a second chance! Even people who cheat on their girlfriends on reality television.

Are you shocked that Bri didn't show up for the Men Tell All special? Hit the comments!

Source: People