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Are you in a monogamous relationship with your fridge, a box of pizza, and your DVR? Well, Desiree Hartsock is here to help. This Bachelorette beauty is hot off the heels of finding love on national television (that's right — rumor has it that Des is engaged!), and the time has come for her to dish some words of romantic wisdom to those of us who aren't lucky enough to have Chris Harrison as our personal matchmaker.

Desiree doesn't seem to have any problem attracting men (they flock to her like we flock to body pillows), so what's her secret? "Love and be yourself," she told a young fan asking for advice on Twitter. "know your worth, let him pursue, don’t be desperate, confidence is key."

Huh, guess that means our strategy of internet stalking, general creeping, and random ugly-crying isn't the secret to winning over our crush. No wonder Chris Harrison hasn't returned any of our calls.

It looks like Desiree definitely follows her own advice, because she's been nothing but confident, flirty and coy during her stint on The Bachelorette. She lets all her men pursue her, she never acts desperate (even when the guys are having doubts) and she's always 100 percent herself.

Sigh, if only all of us could be like Desiree. Now, back to the bejeweled macaroni sculpture we're making for Chris.

Source: Twitter


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