Credit: @JefHolm

When Emily Maynard said yes to Jef Holm in that courtyard in Curacao, our hearts exploded into rainbows of kittens and unicorns. Turns out, that’s basically what their life has been like since that balmy day they got engaged (save for those pesky cheating rumors). What do Emily and Jef do every day, you ask? They work out, plan their wedding — and tousle Jef’s hair with the soft ivory teeth of Emily’s cats.

On Wednesday, September 19, Emily tweeted this photo of Jef being lovingly mauled by one of her cats, with the caption: “How @jefholm gets his perfect hair. He loves cats.” Sounds like Emily’s been reading our Jef Holm fan fiction again (we thought we password-locked that LiveJournal).

The day before, on September 18, 2012, Jef tweeted, “loving the hospitality here in Charlotte,” along with a photo of him petting Em’s white Persian cat while lounging in a white chair. Apparently, you’re allowed to keep your shoes on in the Bachelorette Barbie Dreamhouse.

As for when our dreams will finally be realized and Jef will ride in on a white horse and marry us Emily, Jef tweets a wedding planning update: “I have a feeling a venue for a special day will be picked out soon.” What, is Mariah Carey’s house of butterflies taken?

Source: @EmilyMaynard, @JefHolm