full size The Bachelorette's Arie Luyendyk, Jr., and Jef Holm
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The Bachelorette's Arie Luyendyk, Jr., and Jef Holm

Jef Holm just got his second date rose on The Bachelorette Season 8. He has yet to get an individual date with Emily Maynard. Arie Luyendyk, Jr., had his first one-on-one date last week and his tongue has basically been in Emily’s mouth ever since. Which guy are you more into at this point — and who do you think is best for Emily?

Both Jef and Arie were on the yellow team on the sailing group date in Bermuda on Episode 4. After their team won, they had individual time with Emily. Arie wasted no time in wrapping a blanket around Emily’s shoulders and kissing her like only Arie can kiss her. Jef has been moving a lot slower and Em said he was sometimes hard for her to read. However, they had their skateboard moment on the premiere and she has been basically chasing him, trying to make eye contact and stealing little moments with him. After he got the sailing group date rose, a surprised Jef told the cameras he was starting to fall for Emily. Arie was surprised that he didn’t get the group date rose himself.

If you ask Ryan Bowers — and he’ll tell you even if you don’t ask — Emily gave Jef the rose as a “safe” move because Ryan was offended by Emily kissing Arie in front of everyone else. Maybe the guys haven’t seen all of Em’s interactions with Jef, but she does seem pretty into him, even if he’s too shy to kiss her and he doesn’t have Arie’s mad game. But are you into him? Are you more into Arie?

Season 7 Bachelorette Ashley Hebert seems like like both Arie and Jef and she tweeted during Episode 4, “I'm totes loving Arie everyone. Team Armily? or Jemily? ;P”

Yeah, it’s actually Team Jem for Jef & Em. Armily does not do Arie and Emily’s mutual hotness justice so we need to work on something better. Maybe Team Race Cars or Team Steamy Kisses or Team Arsome... Armily isn’t cutting it. Sorry, Ash.