Do you have an acute case of post-holiday depression? Well, everything is about to get way worse, so you might as well start digging into that leftover pumpkin pie. Despite recent rumors that a reunion might be in the works for Jef Holm and his Bachelorette sweetheart, Emily Maynard, these two are so not meant to be.

Emily and Jef were spotted having an intimate dinner on December 11th at Connolly's Irish Pub in Charlotte, North Carolina, but their relationship has taken a sudden turn for the worse. “Emily is really hurt by Jef,” a source tells RadarOnline. “She wasn’t sure if they should go back out again, but she decided to give it a try and now she’s really sorry. Emily doesn’t want Ricki to know that she’s upset by everything so she’s trying to hold it in and put on a brave face for her little girl.”

Turns out Emily was willing and ready to give Jef a second chance, but she flipped her weave when he was recently spotted with another lady. “Emily is at her wits' end with Jef. He tells her that he wants to get back together, but then he turns around and goes out with other women! She’s sick of it and she doesn’t want to continue to let him hurt her.”

Hopefully Jef will turn a new leaf in 2013 and realize that he can't get much better than Emily — after all, she's beautiful, adorable, funny, and has a freakish obsession with cats. What's not to love?

Source: RadarOnline