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Good news, avid Bachelorette viewers: not only is a new episode of Emily Maynard’s Season 8 on tonight, July 16, 2012 — it’s also the infamous “Men Tell All” special.

Tune in to ABC at 8PM (7PM CST) to hear Kalon make a half-assed apology, Sean share his feelings, and Ryan discuss the merits of trophy wives. Then you have six days to emotionally prepare for The Bachelorette Season 8 finale, in which Emily will choose either Jef or Arie.

Spoiler alert: to find out who Emily chooses, click here!