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One of the reasons we never wanted to join a sorority is because sharing is the worst. But considering they shared Sean Lowe for a few weeks on The Bachelor Season 17, BFFs Selma Alameri and Diana Weeks Willardson seem like old pros at splitting the goods. The two former sister wives have been hanging a ton since the show wrapped, and Selma even went to go visit the salon owner in Salt Lake City! So, how did Jef Holm get in on the party?

No idea. Diana and Selma stopped by SLC joint Keys on Main on March 24 and ran into Emily Maynard’s ex, who looked casual with his usual coif, a raglan-sleeved shirt and a GOLD CHAIN (you’re killing us, Smalls). Was it on purpose?

Well, Selma did date Jef and Sean’s other brother Arie Luyendyk, Jr. for a hot second, so maybe it wasn’t a complete coincidence. We have our fingers crossed Selma wouldn’t stoop to just picking up Emily’s sloppy firsts (um, and seconds... and thirds...), because she’s obviously far too hot for that. But Chris Bukowski may want to wait by his phone for a call, just in case...

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