Falling in love on The Bachelor or The Bachelorette is a heady endeavor almost always ending in engagement — but rarely in wedded bliss. Thanks to a slew of recent splits, we’re knee-deep in Bachelor, Bachelorette, and Bachelor Pad breakup-induced sorrow. Who will drink roséwith Ben Flajnik now? Who will coach Little Ricki’s soccer team? And, last but not least, what happened to that huge $150,000 ring Jef Holm gave Emily Maynard, pictured above?

Em’s ginormous Neil Lane sparkler (the biggest ever in Bachelor Nation history) has been returned or is in the process of being returned, sources tell RadarOnline. All show stars sign contracts requiring that a ring, if received at season’s end, be returned in the event of a breakup. The only catch? If the couple stays together for more than two years prior to breaking up, the girl can keep her ring, according to a RadarOnline source.

So, who’s kept their rings? For a list of the longest Bachelor and Bachelorette relationships, click here!

Source: RadarOnline