If Emily Maynard and Jef Holm's relationship was a country song, it would be "Coat of Many Colors" by Dolly Parton. Basically, they are a beautiful rainbow of adorbs and yeehaws, and we can't wait for them to walk down the aisle in a stylish backwoods wedding.  

But wait, traumatizing news. Emily and Jef don't necessarily want their wedding to be televised. Huh? Why? What. Is. Happening?! Unfortunately, Jef and Em have decided that they're all about things like "privacy" and "feelings" now that The Bachelorette is over, and it looks like they'd prefer an intimate wedding with friends and family.

"I think it would be a really sweet thing to let people see it on TV, but at the same time it is a personal and a private matter," Jef said during an interview with reporters. "And so we just — when the time comes, we'll discuss it and we'll decide."

We totally understand that Jef and Em want a casual affair away from the public eye, but they seem to have forgotten that their fans are the best besties they could ever ask for. They've been there from the beginning, stood by them through thick and thin, and need to see them put a ring on it!

What do you think, Bachelor Nation? Will Jef and Emily have a televised wedding, or will they keep their nuptials private?