Ames Brown knows all about instant attraction. He fell hard for Jackie Gordon at the start of Bachelor Pad Season 2 and he brings that love for love to his vlog on The Bachelor Season 16, Episode 2. The self-declared "softie" said his favorite part of Ben Flajnik's date with Kacie Boguskie was the fact that they held hands. "I don't believe in timelines in relationships at all. Love obeys no rules or no timelines or any of that. I don't believe you should wait to call somebody back a few days or anything like that." Watch the video for more carpe diem hand-holding props from Ames.