Bachelorette Bros! Jef Holm Wants Arie to Be in His Wedding to Emily Maynard (VIDEO) Share Tweet Remind Me To Watch Reward Me Credit: YouTube Jef Holm and Emily Maynard are newly engaged, headed to Africa, and already talking wedding plans! Watch Em and Jef chat with Jimmy Kimmel about their burgeoning wedding plans... Sounds like Jef has a few things to clear with Emily first! July 24, 2012 at 03:19PM EDT by Wetpaint Staff Related: The Bachelorette, Emily Maynard, Jef Holm, The Bachelor, Arie Luyendyk Jr.