Who Is Paul Wesley Married To? You Asked, We Answer! (PHOTOS) 1 of 2 Prev Autoplay Next Tweet November 30, 2012 at 08:00AM EST by Wetpaint Entertainment Staff Related: The Vampire Diaries, Relationships , Paul Wesley full size Who Is the Lucky Lady Married to Paul Wesley? Alas, it’s true: Paul Wesley (Stefan Salvatore) is a married man. So who exactly is the hunky star hitched to? Click through the gallery to find out!