Any fan of Nina Dobrev knows the Vampire Diaries star loves her inspiration quotes. The 24-year-old actress often tweets out words of wisdom and “picture quotes of the day” — but recently she’s been using these thoughts to reflect on her breakup with co-star Ian Somerhalder.

On Sunday, June 2, Nina took to Twitter to share her most recent musing: “It has to happen, in order for you t[o] learn and grow #reflection #selfdiscovery.” Her tweet was paired with yet another picture quote, which read, “Sometimes, the only way to discover who we are, is by figuring out who we are not.”

Nina’s also been using her solo-time to concentrate on her yoga, catch up with old girlfriends, and give her apartment a bit of a makeover.

“Remodeling,” Nina wrote on Monday, June 3. “Getting domesticated w/ my momma @paintaworld. Teamwork makes the dream work. Out with the old in with the new... #changeisgood.”

While we still hold out hope for a reunion between TV’s hottest couple, we’re glad to see Nina focusing on the other parts of her amazing life.

And in case you wondering, that doesn’t include a new relationship with former TVD star David Anders!