The news that Paul Wesley and Torrey DeVitto are getting a divorce after two years of marriage is as heartbreaking as it is surprising. That’s not to say that there weren’t a few signs. Although we know nothing of why the pair actually decided to split, we had noticed that they weren’t as present in each other’s lives lately. Here are a few signs we picked up on:

Family Time: Torrey recently took to Instagram to post pictures from her sister’s wedding. As beautiful as the ceremony looked, we couldn’t help but notice that Wesley didn’t seem to be in attendance. A family wedding seemed like a big milestone to miss ...

No Twitter Love: Paul recently celebrated his 31st birthday, and we do have to admit that we found it a little strange when his wife didn’t tweet at him on his big day like she did last year.

Party For One: Of all the pictures that Nina Dobrev posted from Wesley’s birthday celebrations, it appeared that DeVitto didn’t make it to Atlanta for the shenanigans. Perhaps they had their own celebration that we didn’t see?

No joint trips: Taking things back just a little further in time, Torrey typically attended events with her hubby — especially if they were in California — which is why we wondered about her absence from this year’s Comic-Con extravaganza.

Workaholic: Between Torrey’s work on both Pretty Little Liars and Army Wives and Paul using his TVD hiatus to film a movie, we can’t imagine these two had a lot of time to do normal married things. Maybe the separation was too hard to handle?

We just hope that both of them find happiness, wherever they land next.

Credit: YouTube Photo: Paul Wesley and Torrey DeVitto: He Says "I Love You" at Bloodlines Con