Credit: Larry Busacca/Getty Images Photo: Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev Break Up

We're pretty sure we were more distraught when Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder broke up, and it doesn't look like we won't be seeing Nina on the arm of another guy any time soon!

This past weekend, The Vampire Diaries star hit up Cosmopolitan's Summer Beach Bash and told Us Weekly she's "in no rush" to get into another relationship and would prefer to spend some time focusing on herself. 

"I've been a relationship girl and I've been in long-term relationships my whole life until this point, so I think I'm looking forward to spending some time with myself and finding myself again," she said. We feel ya, girl. You do you! 

"I'm just discovering different sides of me and growing and then I'll figure out what I like in a man when I see it," she continued. OK, how is Ian not the perfect man. Here are a few reasons: He wants to save the world (with his Ian Somerhalder Foundation). He is an amazing actor (hello, Damon Salvatore!). He is super humble (just check his Twitter feed for proof). And the biggest reason? Because he's the most gorgeous man on the face of the Earth. Am I right?

The 24-year-old actress and Ian split back in May after a lovely 3-year relationship, and Nina said there are no hard feelings between herself and Ian, which is good because their characters are still dating on the show (but trouble could be ahead with the whole long-distance relationship thing).

"It's all about finding out what meshes and what doesn't, and what you like and what you don't," Nina said. "Life is about experiences, so I guess I'm just figuring that out."

Source: Us Weekly