Credit: Splash News; Ben Gabbe/Getty Images Photo: Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev Attend the CW Upfronts After Breakup

Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev are donezo, and we still don't know what to do with ourselves over it. We're kinda still in denial and hoping their breakup didn't really happen, to be honest. Their last-ever interview as a couple surfaced in early June, and it just served to make their split even more shocking. We couldn't help but wonder what went wrong, and we were saddened even further when Arrow's Colton Haynes seemingly confirmed the split from a friend perspective. We still don't know which of the exes got custody of Moke — their adorable orange tabby — and we refuse to take sides on that issue.

But while we're still in mourning over Nian's untimely demise, life appears to be going on as normal for the two TVD stars. We still don't have word as to whether or not Nina is rebounding from Ian, but we do know the rumors of her coupling up with David Anders weren't true, so we can only assume she's taking her dating life slowly at this point. The two have carried on as usual in the wake of their breakup, traveling to amazing locales, getting nominated for awards, reacting to said nominationsattending Comic-Con 2013 — just another month's work for hot Hollywood starlets, really.

Looking back, we probably should have seen the signs that Nian was on the rocks. We don't know who called things off, but we do know they've stayed friends, so that's great for them as people and great for The Vampire Diaries as a show. It sounds like Ian and Nina are both single and content, and despite rumors that there was tension between the two co-stars at Comic-Con, they attended the event and posed with fans together, so it sounds like they're still on good terms. They also covered TV Guide alongside Paul Wesley in order to promote the event, so their working relationship seems to be just fine.

Season 5 of The Vampire Diaries is now filming, and all we can hope is that Damon and Elena make it on the show, since their portrayers couldn't make it in real life. Of course, we hope nightly that the couple will get back together... but only time will tell if that dream becomes a reality.