If Ian Somerhalder was married — he's not, BTW — we would have very mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, his relationship with Nina Dobrev, his Vampire Diaries co-star, is a thing of wonder and beauty. When we first saw those photos of the couple taken in Paris in the summer of 2011, we melted. So many PDAs! And they were traveling with their moms! Clearly, it was love, and so darned sweet. So, we want Ian to be happy. But on the other hand, Ian happens to be... Ian Somerhalder. To have him officially taken off the market? Whoa. We're not sure we could handle that? Earlier this year, rumors swirled that Ian had asked Nina to marry him. “It’s not true,” Ian told Access Hollywood. “If it were true, I would admit to it, ‘cause getting turned down builds character!” OMG. How could Ian, who started his own foundation, one that helps a variety of needy causes, possibly need any more character? He's just right the way he is. And still single. Sigh.