They say that if you love a newborn vamp, you should set them free. Or something. And if they come back, that means they’re really yours. Forever and ever.

We bet Stefan’s (Paul Wesley) repeating that mantra after Vampire Diaries Season 4, Episode 6, “We All Go a Little Mad Sometimes.” Elena (Nina Dobrev) confessed her feelings for his brother, Damon (Ian Somerhalder), have changed now that she’s a vampire.

Love hurts, Vampire Diaries fam, and so does the wrath of a vampire scorned. Our head tells us that Stefan will force himself to move on from Elena, for now, because he knows it’s useless to try and win her back at this stage. But our hearts whisper these awful things to us at night. He’s going to kill Damon if there’s Delena action! No Salvatore goes down without a fight! This is sure to bring out the worst Ripper in Stefan yet!

We try not to listen to those voices, but they are persistent little nits.

So, because we can’t decide, we’ll leave this in your supernatural court: Will Stefan really try and move on from Elena?

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