Prompted by a fan question on Facebook, Andy Cohen asks Lydia why she didn’t have a problem dancing on top of a bar, but got so uptight about the idea of strippers.
When Lydia explains how she sees the two events as totally different, she turns to Heather and says, “You have a different opinion, though.”
Feeling attacked, Heather defends herself, saying, “I was completely supportive of you not staying for the strippers. What I had a problem with was the next day, we were all having breakfast, and something came up about our evening before and you made a comment like, ‘Well, I guess you guys are kinda classy.’ I don’t want to be judged for what I think is okay for me to do and not do and I’m not going to judge you.”
“Well, you do judge me,” Lydia is quick to say. “In your blog, you totally blasted me. It was vicious and mean-spirited. [...] The next day at breakfast, I kid around, and then months later [you] write this horrible blog about me.”
While Heather says she apologized, it’s clear that Lydia isn’t over the things that were written. “So, I laugh and I say a joke. Note to self: I shouldn’t hang out with Heather, because those are things I do all the time.”
Watch more of their uncomfortable confrontation from the RHOC Season 8 reunion below!