We're still emotionally distraught from the news of Britney Spears breaking up with fiance Jason Trawick. Here we thought they were Brit and Justin all over again (the good times), and then BOOM. They were Brit and Justin all over again (the bad times — the ones without the matching denim three-piece suits).

We imagine that Britney and Jason's breakup was bittersweet with a dollop of "let's be friends forever," but according to a new report from RadarOnline, not so much.

“It really wasn’t Britney’s decision to announce the split last week, it was Jamie who made the call,” a source tells Radar. “Jason wanted out, and in the fragile state that Britney is in, it’s not like he could have a rational conversation with her about it, so it was really between him and Jamie. They decided how the relationship needed to end and how to go about the technicalities, such as removing Jason from the conservatorship, when he would move out and how to announce the split. Britney was left out of everything and really didn’t even know what was going on.”

Hmmm, we know Britney's had her struggles, but really? It seems unlikely that she'd be completely unaware of her own breakup. “Jason and Jamie wanted to make sure that Britney didn’t lose it, so they had to water things down for her a bit,” the source continues. “She knows that the engagement is off and that Jason has been removed from the conservatorship, but she still hasn’t exactly grasped yet that the relationship is totally over.”

All Britney has to do is turn on a TV to realize her relationship is over, and we have a hard time believing she's so naive after all her years in show biz. After all, this is Britney Spears we're talking about. She dances in red pleather onesies with minimal camel toe-ing. She carries around fireballs. She sees all.

Source: RadarOnline